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(Click or scroll to bottom of page to order.)Vedic Astrology Compatibility Reading - A Lengthy, detailed astrology reading based on Vedic Astrology of India -- a highly accurate ancient compatibility technique that was used for thousands of years to arrange compatible marriages.
Each reading is approximately 30 to 40 pages in length -- written for you personally to answer your questions about a specific relationship and to fully explore your relationship and its potentials. You'll have a written document that you can save and refer back to any time you wish! Your compatibility potentials are important enough to have something in hand and hold on to so you don't have to forget any of the personal information and relationship advice that is noted in your reading.
Once you have reviewed your reading, you are welcome to contact me with questions about your reading. I'll be here for you to ensure that you understand what is written in the stars for your relationship.
The Vedic Astrology Relationship Compatibility Reading is filled with valuable information to help you know if your love can be happy and lasting . . . or if you may instead be wasting your time in a pain-filled relationship experience that won't ever change! Discover the areas of connection or disconnection between you and another person . . . discover your relationship destiny!
Readings are available for both women and men. They are appropriate for relationships between a man and a woman . . . and also for same sex relationships.
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If you are a new visitor or need further information about this Compatibility Reading, I encourage you to continue reading for further details about what this reading entails. If you have any other questions about this service, you may also contact me at: velvetangel@moonstarastrology.com. With the exception of weekends, you'll get a personal response from me within 24 hours or less.
If you know three pieces of vital information for both yourself and another person -- exact birth time, place, and date -- you are holding a gold mine in your hands! Why? Because that knowledge gives you the power to know how compatible -- or incompatible -- you and another person are or will be in a relationship! Learn whether your relationship is set up to be "happily ever after" . . . or whether it's set up to be "Happily NEVER after."No longer do you have to wonder if your issues or challenges with a partner are just your imagination. No longer do you have to keep feeling like relationship problems are all your fault! Maybe they're not your fault, and perhaps not even the fault of a partner. Maybe it's just how you go together! This reading can help take the "shame and blame" out of a relationship situation. It can help you discover how you can truly be with a man (or a woman). It will let you know if you already have your "Mr. Right" (or Ms. Right). It can also help you find closure on a past relationship you couldn't let go of . . . or to show whether maybe you really should contact your ex-partner and try again. Maybe it was just a matter of the "wrong timing" but the right relationship!
Perhaps some of these questions have crossed your mind about a partner or potential partner:
The Vedic Astrology Relationship Compatibility Reading will give you the answers you need to make wise, informed decisions about a relationship -- or a potential relationship.Can we be compatible? Can he/she be "the one?" Will we stay attracted to each other? Or will the "chemistry" start fizzling out? Why do we fight all the time? Why does it seem like we are in two different worlds from each other? Should I make a deeper commitment, or should I move on? Is the "cost" of this relationship going to be a price I want to pay? Why were things going so great for so long, and now we can't ever seem to agree or get along? Why do we keep breaking up and getting back together -- over and over again? Why can't I let go of my ex and just move on? Why won't my ex let me be and allow me to move on in my life without him? Why does it feel like he's not as invested in the relationship as I am? Why doesn't he call me or return my calls? Doesn't he even care about me? Should I pursue him/her . . . or drop a few hints and let him/her pursue me? Is this relationship worth saving? Things seem great! Is this too good to be true? And any other questions you may have about your specific relationship compatibility! You don't have to wait for hindsight to bring you the experience and wisdom of 20/20 vision about a relationship! You don't have to get into a deeper and more painful situation if you and another person aren't truly compatible. Relationship Compatibility gives you the picture of foresight to understand the dynamics of a relationship -- to know how the compatibility (or INcompatibility) is set up for a particular relationship. You can literally save yourself months or even years of misery and unhappiness if you know! Or you can be sure to seize the opportunity if the man (or woman) in question is "the one" that can make you happy.
In a few cases, it may just be that you've found the "right one," but the timing has just been wrong in the past -- or maybe the timing is wrong right now, and it would be best to wait. Maybe that ex-boyfriend (or ex-girlfriend) and you really CAN be compatible and happy together . . . or not. The stars hold the answers through this amazing astrology technique that is FAR MORE than just a simple report run between you and another person.
If you've ever run a computer generated compatibility report, you probably gained some interesting information, but you might have had some valid questions about that, too -- but couldn't ask. In-depth relationship compatibility goes further than "just" a score. And so if you are running scores on a website between you and another person, and you're getting a high score and thinking, "Wow, we have a high Wavelength score! We are compatible! Yay!" Don't be fooled. There are some other very important things to look at, too, that have a significant influence on your overall compatibility. A good compatibility score is only part of the whole picture! And what you'll get in this reading is not a computer generated spit out. You will get answers to your questions in addition to a lot of useful information pertaining to your relationship -- and how it works, or how it doesn't work out so well. You'll get information on how to work on the relationship if it's something you really want to save . . . or something you want to pursue further.
In your personal Relationship Compatibility Reading, you can bring your questions, concerns, and confusions to the table, and once your astrology reading is completed, you'll also have opportunity to ask any follow-up questions that you need to -- because I want you to totally understand your relationship, how it's set up, and what you can do to make the best of a relationship . . . or help you make a decision as to whether it may just be time to cut your losses and move on. The decision will be yours, but I can help you see the major elements that are a part of that decision-making process.
YOUR present and future happiness is worth it to know!! You DESERVE to know!!
In addition to knowing how you and another person can be as a couple, you can learn more about the inborn natures of yourself and your partner or potential partner. Because often, when two people just can't get along or can't be truly compatible -- it's not your fault! It's not necessarily even your partner's fault. It's just how things might be set up in the relationship so that you and another will disagree a whole lot more than you'll ever be able to agree on things.But maybe you've got a fantastic relationship possibility right in front of you -- and you don't even know how great it could be. Maybe you've gotten hung up with the #1 MYTH that Sun Signs matter most for compatibility . . . and that since you're a Libra woman, there is no way you will ever date a Virgo man again. Maybe you've been hurt by a certain sign that a typical astrology book said would be a "match made in heaven" -- and you just don't get why that never came true for you when you tried to connect to the sign that was was "supposed" to be your "perfect" match.
But guess what!? It's NOT the Sun sign that matters when it comes to relationships and compatibility! The Sun sign is a great indicator of career, health, behavior, and personality traits . . . but it doesn't tell us how two people really RELATE to each other or how they can FEEL about each other. The Moon is all about feelings, emotions, and relating. And the bottom line of whether a relationship is good for you . . . is whether you are going to FEEL GOOD in that association or not! So in Vedic Astrology, it's the Moon that we focus more on when it comes to relationships.
Vedic Astrologers focus on many complicated combinations that go beyond just what sign of the zodiac a person is born under. It goes beyond just the twelve signs, and also includes 27 sub-signs (called nakshatras or lunar mansions) that are a part of the stars and constellations. Each person's chart contains hundreds of combinations of houses, planets, signs, constellations, planetary rulerships, transits, etc. And it's those combinations and ingredients that make for the recipe of a very unique individual. No two people are exactly the same -- not even twins!
Many couples have spent years getting to know each other through "trial and error" -- me included! And oh boy, you can really go through the relationship school of hard knocks! I sure did, and I just didn't get what was happening. After all, a Sagittarius and an Aquarius are supposed to be so great together. And technically, my husband and I really have had some great things going for us -- but some really, really, really difficult and challenging things in our compatibility, too . . . things that Western Astrology could never have forewarned me about. But now that I know what is going on through the ancient art of Vedic Astrology, and I've shared the information with my loving husband, it has helped us to work with what we have and work with each other -- not against one another in the relationship. We have learned to give each other our individual processes and not take things to heart in the way we once did. We have learned to accept each other, to not try to change each other . . . and to really love and enjoy the great qualities that we both have together and can offer each other. It really takes the focus off the problem things in our charts that we now understand, and it lets us emphasize the things that are good for us together. We don't have a good or even an average or "okay" wavelength score. We have a very low compatibility score -- but some of the other areas of our compatibility have served to hold us together through more than two decades of time together! We chose to pay a "higher price" to be in our relationship . . . and the price of compatibility is an important choice in relationships. So you see, although a "score" is important in terms of the points gained in a compatibility analysis . . . the points and the score are not everything. There is so much more to look at.
If you've been struggling with a relationship for a decade or two, but you're still in a lot of "pain" because of it . . . you can benefit from gaining a much better understanding of who you are with and why he or she is the way that he/she is. And if you are fortunate that you have not spent all those years in "trial and error," but there is a new potential love interest in your life . . . you don't have to be like myself and so many others who learned it all the HARD way!
If you know how a person is early on, how that person responds to things, what works best in a relationship with him or her, and if that person is right for you in the first place . . . you can avoid wasted months or years that are spent in great pain and disappointment. Everything you want to know about a person and the potentials for compatibility with that person are all written in the stars!
And when you gain this knowledge about yourself, a partner, and the relationship . . . you learn to stop judging and misunderstanding that person. You stop being hurt by him just because he's being who he is. You stop taking it all so personally when you get what he's all about. You stop blaming yourself as well. The "blame and shame" start dwindling away. And when the judging, the blame, and the confusion are replaced with more acceptance, your partner is going to notice that and will also become more accepting of you in return. And it may also help him to open up to you in ways that he hasn't previously been able to. And this opens the doors for a better connection to grow between the two of you. If you know the birth date, time, and place for someone that you're interested in knowing more about astrologically . . . you hold the golden keys to opening the gates of that special wisdom!
Your Vedic Astrology Relationship Compatibility Reading can help you to:
When you have this knowledge in your hands, you'll have greater peace of mind about how things are between you and a partner, what to do, and if things can work out or not. You can save yourself so much grief, heartache, and disappointment when you know what is going on with a partner and yourself -- and the relationship. You'll understand whether the "cost" of that relationship is one you're willing to pay . . . or not.
- Stop the confusion when it comes to your partner's behavior or reactions.
- Stop wondering if you could ever be happy with him/her or not.
- Stop taking his behavior so personally.
- Stop wishing your partner would be different than who he/she really is.
- Stop thinking that if he only loved you, he would change.
- Stop thinking that your love will make him change.
- Stop working so hard to win the love and support of a man who can't give it to you.
It can be very helpful to know what to expect in a written reading presentation, so below, you can review the many areas that I'll be covering in your personal relationship reading -- lots of insightful, helpful, and revealing information, in addition to some relevant tips and guidance, to help you better understand and work with your relationship . . . and to help you know if it's the right relationship for you.
The introductory part of your reading will include some helpful information about relationships -- including the five critical keys of a successful relationship. Astrological compatibility is just one of those critical keys.Astrology is an incredible tool to help you understand relationships. Your Relationship Compatibility Reading will tell you if you and a man (or woman) have the basic emotional foundations to make a relationship work. Understanding your compatibility with a partner can bring tremendous peace of mind and can help you know what parts of a relationship are working well, what parts of a relationship to work on or surrender to -- or if you should perhaps move on to find a more effortless, connected relationship.
Only YOU can know if and when you are ready to give up on a relationship or commit to it all the way. This reading should not be used to decide if you should marry or leave someone -- because that is a free will choice that belongs to you and a partner, and not to the stars or the planets! Look to the reading to validate how you feel, or further understand what you're going through with a partner in order to improve things with him or her and make the decisions that are right for you personally. Thus, I will not tell you to "dump the chump" or to commit fully to a relationship. I will tell you how things are set up between the two of you in many vital areas of compatibility, and you'll have the information in your hands to think about what you need and want . . . and if you can get those needs and desires fulfilled with a particular partner. But just know that the choice belongs to you as to whether to commit fully to a relationship or to leave a relationship.
Learn about the moon signs and nakshatras (star constellations) for both you and your partner or potential partner. These, in themselves, will tell you a lot about yourself and another person.These basic elements can show you:
If you or a partner/potential partner is a "late bloomer" in love -- meaning that you'll be happier if you marry after the age of 35, or you're not likely to feel like you've found "the one" until after the age of 35. If a partner/potential partner tends to be loyal or fickle -- which shows the inclination for him/her to either be faithful or to cheat Whether a man (or woman) will want YOU to do the pursuing, or whether he/she wants to be the one to pursue a relationship. What your sun and moon signs are in Vedic Astrology -- and how your Vedic signs may be different than in Western Astrology traditions that most people are more familiar with. Many more interesting things that are fun to learn about yourself and another person!
In this part of the reading, you will learn which of you is the "leader" in the relationship. Learn whether there is mutual respect, or if you and another person will be inclined to disrespect each other. There is a particular flow when two people get together, and if that energy flows well, both people are able to feel respected, cared for, and loved. If it doesn't flow well, both people feel disrespected, incompetent, and frustrated.This is an area of compatibility that is often noticed right away with someone -- rather than having to wait years down the road to discover whether this flow of respect is balanced or not.
Learn whether you tend to be more alpha (masculine) or beta (feminine) -- and how your partner or potential partner is . . . and learn how to handle that, whether one of you is alpha and the other is beta, or whether you both are of the same emotional energy. Learn whether your relationship is a "role reversal" relationship, and if so, what to expect in that kind of association and what you can do to try to make that work out better for you.
If there is an imbalance in the area of respect, you may feel like the above is happening in your relationship! And while you may be seething with resentment because of it . . . it may just be that your partner is simply being himself/herself. You might be the one with the faster process, and in those cases, it doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you or with him/her! It doesn't necessarily mean that he doesn't care or that he doesn't love you!
- Do you feel like you are more in love with your partner and more invested in the relationship than he/she is?
- Do you feel like it takes him forever to want the same things you do -- such as making a stronger commitment. Do you feel like you are always ready before he is?
- Do you feel like you are the constant "doer" in the relationship and the one who always has to suggest things first? And it can seem like he is not interested or doesn't really care?
- Do you feel like you're the one who has to chase and pursue him or try to convince a man to be with you?
But it is vital to be aware of what is going on -- and to know how to handle it. If you can understand more in the way of your compatibility with a specific partner, it can literally save the relationship (if things are otherwise good for the two of you). You can learn how to get out of this soul crushing, vicious cycle and have some peace of mind when you finally see what is happening in your relationship. Sometimes the problem is not how a man feels about you, but is instead just how the two of you are at the core.
Are the two of you on the same wavelength, making you able to effectively communicate and understand each other overall . . . or no matter how hard you try, will you rarely see eye-to-eye? For a relationship to be truly compatible, a couple needs to be on the same "wavelength." This allows a relationship to be smooth, efficient, and nurturing. The compatible couple will have shared goals and mutual needs -- and they will both share in the fulfillment of those needs for each other.This area of the reading will explore the similarity of your needs and the ability for you both to be happy and fulfilled when spending time together. It will show whether you feel much of the same things at the same time -- such as the same feelings, desire to do the same things, etc. If a couple is not on the same wavelength, this can be very emotionally and physically draining for both people. If this natural attunement is not there, it will be harder to communicate and relate well together -- because two people are not tuned in to the same thing at the same time. Now it's not a matter of two people wanting the very same things all of the time, as everyone is unique . . . but this element of the reading is very important and shows whether you and a partner are able to spend a lot of time together, and if you both want the same things often enough to enjoy shared, quality time that helps you both further connect and bond.
A favorable wavelength score allows you and another person to spend a lot of time together in a way that energizes the two of you -- rather than draining you. It helps you and another person to form a deeper bond and connection, and you can communicate well and really tune into the other person. It allows you to share on a much deeper level. Having a favorable wavelength score lets you both truly be yourselves with one another. You don't feel that you have to constantly explain yourself and your needs -- because your partner will understand you. He or she will really "get" you, and you'll also "get" him or her. So the wavelength score is going to show whether you and a man (or woman) have a good connection . . . or a DIS-connection.
In any relationship, one of the most important things is to be able to be as much of your "real self" as possible. This part of the reading will show whether you and a partner have any excesses in the relationship that can prevent either of you from expressing your true selves, and thus, cause you to have difficulty relating to each other.Do you and your partner get too "emotional" together? Does the relationship feel like its an emotional roller coaster? Do you and your partner tend to make mountains out of molehills, or make a bigger deal of something than is necessary? Are there jealousy and/or codependency issues going on?
--If so, there may be too much "water" in the makeup of the relationship.Do you find it hard to keep the peace in the relationship -- with excessive restlessness, hostility, irritation, and arguments coming up?
--If so, there may be too much "fire" in the makeup of the relationship.Are you and your partner too analytical together? Do you tend to overthink things and question everything? Do you find it harder to keep schedules in a life that is filled with change and instability? -- such as trying to keep regular eating and sleeping hours and other schedules? Is it hard to follow through on plans and intentions? Do things feel too unfocused and inconsistent?
--If so, there may be too much "air" in the makeup of the relationship.Or maybe you and a partner are fortunate to have different energies that can work well together in a more harmonious fashion so that everything doesn't become such a big deal, things aren't overanalyzed, and keeping the peace becomes easier to do! You will learn what to do if your relationship does have an "excess" of water, fire, or air.
This area of the compatibility analysis determines whether you and your partner (or potential partner) can create well together and be constructive together. Learn whether there is ease and comfort between the two of you, or whether you will tend to be at odds with one another when trying to build a relationship and life together. This is all about how your lives can come together, and how circumstances will support your lives. It relates to whether your environment, family, friends, and life circumstances will support you being together.Constructivism has to do with creating or building anything that is desired in a relationship. It can refer to having children, building a house, working on projects together, establishing the foundations of home life, and anything else that requires a mutual effort.
Do you have a bonding relationship? Do you have shared goals for what you want to build and create together? Or is one of you perhaps making too great of a sacrifice for the other and feeling disappointment?
Does your relationship bring out too much independence in either one of you -- to the point of that independence interfering with your ability to build your lives together, create together, and be constructive together? Is there too much competition between the two of you to where either of you feel like you are being one-upped by the other when you are trying to create something together?
You will find out how well you and a partner or potential partner can create and be constructive together.
Do you and a partner have the same sensibilities and tastes, the same values and sense of humor? Do you truly GET each other? Or do you too often feel misunderstood or "put in your place" by a partner? Is your partner too conservative for you -- or are you too conservative for him?Do you tend to embarrass your man (or your lady), or does he/she embarrass you? Does he laugh at things that you don't find funny? Does he seem overwhelmed by your emotions, shutting down when you try to tell him how you feel? Or can your man (woman) handle you when you're emotional? Can he/she comfort and reassure you when you're upset, angry, or depressed. Does he make you feel loved even when you're not perfect?
The Temperament of your charts will tell what both of you are like. Having a compatible temperament keeps a couple young, happy, and increasing in their love for one another. It allows you to really understand one another.
Maybe you're crazy about someone, but the two of you just can't seem to agree on things. This measurement of the analysis looks at the affinity of two people's temperament. We all have an inborn point of view that has a great deal to do with our values, beliefs, attitudes, and ways of being. It’s best if two people are of the same temperament, because this allows a couple of have the same sensibilities and tastes, and truly GET each other. When two people don't share the same temperament, however, they may find that they just don’t understand each other.
Knowing what your astrological temperament is, and what your partner's is . . . is an important key to finding out what your long-term compatibility will be with someone -- and whether you'll be more inclined to have an easy, passionate relationship . . . or whether you're going to have to work on it a little bit more than you expected.
Is your relationship friendly . . . or adversarial? A primary ingredient for any good relationship is the affinity of friendship. Friends are discovered in the places we like and in the things that we like to do. So in a relationship, friendship makes two people want to do things together. Also, in any relationship, people need to treat each other in a friendly way, especially during difficult times.When things get tough in life, this particular influence may be felt the strongest. If you have an affinity for friendship, you can treat each other kindly during times of difficulty. But if you don't have this friendship to fall back on when times are hard, there can be a real sense of lack.
- Are you and your partner friends in addition to being lovers?
- Do you and your partner enjoy the same things and the same places?
- Or are there vast differences in your attitudes about things?
- Are the feelings of friendship, mutual understanding, and compromise missing in your relationship more often than not?
The area of Instinctive Compatibility will reveal the "animal symbols" for both you and your partner which indicates your instinctive natures. It will show whether the sexual chemistry is strong, average, or weak. Additionally, this area of compatibility is especially important because the instinctive nature is what one relies upon in intense situations or crisis. For a couple to be able to get through intense situations harmoniously, and for a couple to bond through intense experiences, including sexual ones, it is important to look at whether the instinctive natures are compatible.Unlike our social masks, true selves come out in times of crisis, stress, or during intense aspects of physical intimacy. When you and another are compatible in this way, you'll bond through intense experiences and stay connected during difficult times. Harmonious couples have a profound sexual connection unlike couples who are disruptive to one another.
In this part of the reading, you'll learn if your instinctive nature is disruptive with someone else's, just average or so-so with them, or very harmonious. Couples who have this harmony through instinctive compatibility usually have a profound sexual connection, while couples who are disruptive to one another may find themselves disappointed -- or even bored -- with this part of their relationship.
Is your partner's physical presence a source of comfort to you? Do you feel safe and comfortable with him? This area of the compatibility reading will explore whether you can feel peaceful with your partner . . . or if his very presence will make you uncomfortable (or irritated and agitated) in some way. A man's temperament will either feel comfortable and safe to a woman . . . or it will feel more threatening -- to where she can't really be herself.If the comfort is there in the relationship, both partners will feel good. The man will feel that he is doing right by the woman, and she'll feel good because he's doing right by her. In times of difficulty, there is a greater possibility to work things out when this Comfort exists in a relationship. But if this Comfort is not present, it becomes harder to work things out, and the man finds that he's unable to fix a problem in a way that feels right and comfortable by the woman. It can be hard to find a solution when this area of compatibility is lacking, because the man's efforts may end up causing more problems instead of improving anything.
Having Comfort in your association with someone will help the relationship grow and will make you and your partner feel more secure with one another.
Do you and your partner have an innate ability to understand each other and to meet each other’s needs . . . or do you feel frustrated no matter what you do?Does your relationship have the quality of innate giving? Or do one of you put yourselves out too much for the other person . . . or not enough, at the other extreme? Does your level of devotion and giving have a healthy balance in the relationship?
If you both have the innate ability to know what the other person needs and are happy to provide that to the other person, there is innate giving in the relationship. You will both naturally know who is in the greater need at the given moment and will be happy to provide that. This can help you both feel very loved and cared for by one another.
Do either of you bring more to the relationship than the other person? Or do you both participate on a relatively equal measure in terms of what you each feel is being brought to the relationship?This area of the compatibility analysis determines whether you and your partner will gravitate toward positive improvement or not. People change as a result of being in a relationship. Each person "mutates" or transforms somewhat as a result of being with the other. Ideally, this change will be for the better, and since it is part of human nature to want to change and improve, if the relationship has an innate ability to bring about positive changes, the couple's need for growing and improving will be better met.
Will your relationship have a sense of purpose and meaning . . . or will you be inclined to drift further and further apart over time? This area of the compatibility reading will show whether the passion and chemistry that is felt at the beginning will last . . . or if that passion is only misleading you.If you and a partner have that "meant to be" feeling that lasts . . . then this is a relationship that has a sense of purpose. If you and a partner do not have this sense of purpose, one or both of you may wonder one day why in the heck you are still together.
The Sense of Purpose is like a glue that can hold a relationship together -- even if the compatibility is less than average. But if the compatibility scores are above average, this Sense of Purpose adds depth and meaning to the relationship. It is said that if anything comes close to having a soul mate connection, this measurement which is called "Mahendra" would be it! Having this Sense of Purpose lets you wake up each morning and know that you are meant to be with your partner and that you and he/she share a special purpose for being together.
Now on the downside, if a relationship has some serious afflictions and weaknesses, Mahendra (Sense of Purpose) can also serve to keep a couple together even if they both desire to leave the relationship. It can make a couple who is having serious problems feel like they should work things out even when they probably shouldn't. This is a very bonding connection that makes it hard to pull two people apart. And that holds true whether the relationship is highly compatible or whether there are serious problems of incompatibility going on.
Will you and your partner be inclined to feel that you still belong together years down the road? Are you together for reasons that are lasting ones?
The area of "Obstacles" is a very serious area to consider, and although it's actually rare for Vedha Obstacles to come up between two people, it does happen on occasion that a couple will always face constant, excessive outside interference that comes between them -- such as infidelity, financial problems, health problems, geographic distance, work matters or job conflicts that take one partner away most of the time, or even friends or family members that come between two people. This is one of the "great blemishes" that can be present between two people -- and creates circumstances of incompatibility, no matter how high the wavelength score is or how good other factors are between the charts of two people who have this Vedha Obstacle getting in the way.Vedha Obstacles will almost always prevent a couple from ever going the distance. Having this obstacle in a relationship doesn't allow for progress as a couple. There will be constant obstacles and challenge that just cannot be overcome. The couple's lives just don't come together easily when Vedha Obstacles are present.
When these Obstacles are present in a relationship, the destinies of the couple are timed so differently that there will always be something that prevents them from being together completely in a solid, secure relationship. Their destinies tend to pull them apart over and over again. You may feel like once you get one obstacle or problem solved, things will be okay . . . but another one just keeps popping up -- again and again and again. So Vedha Obstacles are a serious challenge for any relationship. Hopefully it won't be a part of your own compatibility with someone, but it's always better to know -- sooner rather than later!
Unfortunately, when Vedha is present in a relationship, it's often best to let go of that particular relationship. It would be in your best interests to live your life and wait for a person whose destiny WILL allow you into their life and whom your destiny will allow them into yours. Even if there is otherwise excellent compatibility, Vedha is usually enough to keep a relationship from progressing and going the distance. It is a very rare thing for a couple with Vedha in the charts to ever reach the marriage alter! And if they do, they end up facing constant obstacles in life that don't truly let them be together in a real relationship experience.
"Misfortune" is the second great blemish that can be present in a relationship. When two people have this, it will feel like they are always stepping on "love land mines." It makes for a very up and down kind of relationship. And two people who truly love each other can have this Misfortune in the relationship.Rajju Misfortune makes you feel like you cannot ever just relax and enjoy each other in a relationship. It prevents you from moving forward smoothly. It can rob you from feeling secure with a partner. When Rajju Misfortune is present between a couple, their very togetherness tends to bring problems to the relationship as well as to their individual lives. Their very togetherness brings ill feelings between them along with the misfortunes that come their way. It is as if two people are tied to a string of unfortunate events and drama when this Misfortune is present.
Rajju Misfortune creates tremendous pain and disappointment between people. It creates a lot of hurt feelings and drama in relationships. It's difficult to relax and enjoy each other. It can show up as a lack of shared goals, confusion, and a trend of "one step forward, two steps back." And instead of just being able to focus on a problem when it comes up, suddenly you may find that the whole relationship is being questioned instead of focusing on the real problem at hand.
Unlike the area of Obstacles (noted above), Rajju Misfortune does have some mitigating factors that can prevent much of this misfortune from happening between you and another person -- so that you'll have a much better chance to go the distance with someone you love. In this analysis, if Rajju Misfortune is present, I'll also be looking to see if you have other major factors of compatibility that will help diminish, reduce, or negate most of the negative influences of Rajju Misfortune! And so this particular great blemish" of compatibility is not always a complete "deal breaker" if it's present between two people. It can at least be extremely helpful to know what is at the root of your romantic roller coaster, and you'll learn what to do in order to make the best of things if you have this misfortune in your charts but still want to stay together.
If you have this Rajju Misfortune in a connection with someone you're not yet invested in, you may want to think twice about such a relationship . . . but if you and a partner love each other and have already invested a lot of years in the relationship, you may have a desire to stay together and learn how to work on this so that the relationship doesn't fall apart because of this blemish.
The area of "Magnetic Attraction" will reveal whether you and your partner share an extra special connection -- like that "WOW" feeling where he/she is smitten with you . . . or you are smitten with him/her. Although a person can still feel quite attracted to someone and be very much in love without this starry-eyed magnetic attraction being in their charts, this special "magnetic" attraction found in the charts will draw people toward each other, sometimes in a way that is unexplainable to them. It brings a lasting "zing" to the relationship. Having this kind of special attraction in the relationship will make you feel that "in love" feeling for life with this person -- and will make him feel it, too, if the charts show that he also has it. One or both of you may have this in your compatibility charts, and if it's there, it enables you to feel that the work it takes to be together is worth it! It also means that you and this person will retain your initial attraction to each other through the years.This magnetic attraction can cause the person who is drawn to the other to do almost anything for the relationship. It makes for a powerful magnetic attraction -- and if the rest of the compatibility is solid, this special "WOW" attraction can really add to the relationship.
But if the rest of the compatibility is problematic, then this magnetic attraction can actually make it very difficult for the person being drawn towards the other to let go if things don't work out. And so in those problematic cases, this element could actually serve as a "fatal attraction" or otherwise work against them, instead of allowing for a healthy attraction to the other person. It can explain why a person could be "smitten" beyond reason for the other person and doesn't want to let go, even if it's for the best to do so.
Do you feel like you have a say about things in your relationship? Or do you feel like you get pushed into the corner? Or if you're a man in a relationship with a woman, maybe you feel like she just nags you to no end, and you become frustrated by that.Do you feel like your partner is not doing what he or she needs to be doing to make things happen in the way that you are? Do you feel like you are having to do everything? Or when you hear "no" to something you've suggested, do you lose your sense of courage and focus? Or maybe you find it hard to say "no" in the face of your partner's stronger and more assertive presence?
The assertive pressure will show whether there is a healthy balance of power in the relationship . . . or if you'll only end up feeling controlled, voiceless, and frustrated most of the time. This is where Mars comes into the picture for three of your important Vedic charts. Mars is the planet through which we assert what is on our minds and hearts. Two people in a relationship need to be able to assert themselves equally, or else the relationship tends to become imbalanced and frustrated.
This part of the reading will tell you how equal or unequal the pressure is between you and a partner. If you and another are equally matched in this kind of strength, you can work together to build a better life.
In order to have and participate in a relationship, you need to be in your season of love. And if you or your partner happen to be under the love-blocking influence of a Saturn Cycle . . . you're not in a celestial season of love! Even if your compatibility is otherwise great, sometimes it's just a matter of the "timing." This is why sometimes a person can successfully get back with her or his ex-partner . . . because they actually had the right partner; it was just the wrong time!Saturn can be hard on current relationships as well -- even very good and compatible relationships. It's a challenging but important cycle that is designed to help you grow and build something better than what you had before in your life. But that's not to say that it's an easy process to go through -- because it's usually not! So in this part of the reading, I will let you know whether you or your partner is experiencing a Saturn Cycle that can make a relationship experience be a lot more difficult than it probably would be otherwise. If you happen to be in this cycle, I'll let you know when you can expect to finally get some relief from good ole' Saturn. And just as a note for you, a cycle of Saturn lasts seven-and-a-half years! Yes, that's a long time!
And if you know you're in a cycle of Saturn, I also offer a special reading on that very subject to inform you of the Saturn Cycles of your life, what to expect in those times, and what you can do to make the most of a challenging time -- and to understand, too, when Saturn will favor you more than challenge you. Saturn can be "cruel," but as that old song goes, "You've gotta be cruel to be kind in the right measure" . . . well that's just a corny way of stating the truth about what Saturn does to us in our lives. Saturn helps us to tear down old structures and build stronger, better ones. You can learn more about the Saturn Cycles Reading here: www.moonstarastrology.com/Readings/Saturn.html
Here, I'll summarize the main points of the reading -- the strengths, the average or neutral aspects, and the weaknesses. And for any of your questions asked in the reading, I'll be sure to include information and responses to your specific relationship questions if not already covered earlier in the reading contents.No one will ever have that "perfect" relationship, but a very good relationship can often feel close to perfect. If it makes you happy, and your partner is happy . . . then you've got a good thing going for yourselves! And even when there are difficulties shown in your charts, it won't always mean that the relationship is doomed to fail. Unless you have some very serious issues in your charts, and if it's a relationship you really want, there is often a way to make things better.
Sometimes, however, it really is best to just let go. And if that happens to be the case for you and a particular partner . . . then this reading can bring out some important things to your attention to help you make a healthy decision for yourself. But just know that's always your choice -- well, your partner's choice, too, of course. The point is . . . it's not my choice to make for you whether to fully commit to a relationship or to give it up. Nor is it the choice of the stars and planets. But if you know ahead of time that you'll be chronically miserable a lot more than you'll see that ray of sunshine . . . it can certainly give you pause for some serious contemplation.
By summarizing the strengths, weaknesses, and average areas of your compatibility analysis, we may find that there are areas in your relationship that are strengths for which you're not tapping into or taking advantage of. We can look at weaknesses that tend to make things worse when you or your partner say or do something that triggers the weak spots and pushes the wrong buttons. This summary will help us to look at how to maximize the areas you are most compatible with someone, and how to improve upon the areas that can push all the wrong buttons and tear a relationship down.
In the final part of your reading, I'll finish up with some concluding remarks and then get your written presentation out to you ASAP. From there, you will be invited to ask questions about your reading. And I'll follow up with you on your questions and make sure that you have a solid understanding of the relationship in question!Having an in-depth compatibility reading can be a lot of fun in addition to bringing you a lot of knowledge and understanding! And having it in written form makes it even better! You'll have something tangible to refer back to any time you want -- as a reminder, or when you need a boost about the decisions you are making in a relationship. You don't have to risk any information to memory. All of this stuff is just too important to risk forgetting any of the components that make up your togetherness with a person.
Your written reading consultation also makes for the most private way to have a reading. I am a very private person myself, and I understand and respect the need for privacy. While some people feel a bigger need for a phone reading consultation, I have done written reading consultations for years . . . and it has worked beautifully for myself and my clients. You don't have to be interrupted when someone knocks on the door or tries to call you on another line -- or when your kids or spouse walk into your private space. Your written presentation can handle the interruptions, if you have them, a lot better than a phone consultation can handle such interruptions of privacy.
Your personal reading will be set up on a password protected page for you to access -- and you can save and print for two months time. But if you would instead like it sent to you via a Word Document or a PDF file (Acrobat Reader), I will certainly be happy to do that for you.
Here's the bottom line -- if you want to do something or be in a relationship, but your chart tells you that you shouldn't . . . you can still do it anyway. It is really YOUR choice! If you want to be with a man that you truly love, but that you aren't astrologically compatible with . . . you can be with him anyway. The stars and planets are not going to take your choices away from you. Free will still applies. Always!
Even the classic Vedic astrology texts are clear about this. They say, "If a man has real love for a woman, he should marry her. Love that springs from within is greater than all other matching characteristics." The "matching characteristics" are referring to the compatibility between a man and a woman. The classic texts also go on to say that even if two people are deemed to be perfect fits in terms of their astrological compatibility, if they don't love each other, then marriage would be futile. I totally agree! Love is important between two people, and although love alone isn't enough to make a relationship work . . . what would it matter if you had agreement, understanding, good communication, chemistry, and supportive circumstances if you didn't love your partner? None of it would matter if love wasn't there, and I think we all know that.
The intention of this compatibility reading is to help you understand the dynamics of your relationship and to look at the "feeling" side of things. It can help you to make a good relationship even better . . . and it can help you to stop wasting time on a relationship that only drains you and leaves you disappointed time and time again. It will help you to put your energy and heart where you'll get back what you long for and deserve. If you know the astrological truth about a man (or woman), about yourself, and how the two of you fit together, you can create a strong bond with him or her . . . or decide if he's even worth your time. You get to decide whether the "price" of a relationship is going to be worth it for you or not.
Your Relationship Compatibility Reading can serve as a tool to see the potentials in a relationship you want . . . or for some, it can serve as a tool to help find closure in a relationship that can't ever work out, no matter how much you have wanted it to work.
You can have a reading done between you and a current partner, an ex-partner, or just someone you're wondering about in terms of whether you should be with him/her or not. These readings are specific to you and the person of your choice -- whether it's your spouse, boyfriend, girlfriend, an ex that you never could find closure with or are wondering if you should try again with or not . . . or a person you've just met and would like to get to know better.
Learn exactly what is going on between the two of you so that you can make the most of your love . . . or find out if you should stop wasting your time and energy on a relationship that can't get anywhere. The answers are all in the stars! And the answers are incredibly accurate!
Astrology can help you know whether someone can be Mr. Right or Ms. Right very early on -- whether you've just been on one date or no dates at all with that person! You can know from the very beginning whether it's worth it or not to get closer to someone or to try to be in a relationship with a particular person. The astrology techniques that I use in compatibility analysis are based on the methods from Vedic Astrology of India -- a highly accurate ancient compatibility technique that has been used for thousands of years to arrange compatible marriages with almost no divorce rate. These techniques are very accurate, revealing, comprehensive, and incredibly specific. I've seen these methods work time and time again -- and have learned so much about my own relationship as well! It's no wonder that vedic astrology is becoming more and more popular in recent years.
With this knowledge of the stars, you can avoid wasting a lot of time, energy, and emotions on a relationship partner who isn't going to be compatible with you and isn't going to be supportive of you or the relationship itself. Because the fact is, you can't change who people are. You can't change their "wiring" that they came into this world with. And while some people can have a happy, healthy, beautiful relationship together because of how their charts are aligned with each other . . . some people meet with drama, trauma, and chaos because of the "misalignment" of their charts. The answers are in the stars -- and just knowing can bring such incredible peace of mind!!
It is said that hindsight gives you 20/20 vision . . . but foresight is the part that is so much cloudier and confusing. With astrology, you don't have to go through any difficult experiences to gain the wisdom of hindsight . . . because the stars hold the answers of foresight! Astrology is that incredible! And it's great for relationships -- to know whether you are set out on a path of relative ease, comfort, and happiness in a relationship . . . or if your ride is going to be bumpy and turbulent with a sinking ship!
The Answers are Written in the Stars!
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OPTIONAL: Please also feel free to ask any and all questions you have about your compatibility with a specific man or woman -- such as wondering why you fight so much, wondering if it's too good to be true, wondering why he doesn't seem to invest as much in the relationship as you do, wondering why things were so good and then suddenly seemed to go downhill, wondering why he or she seems to pull away from you, . . . etc.! Anything you want to ask about or share with me that relates to your compatibility, I will cover in your reading. If you've got problem areas in your relationship, let's explore them together! I'll help you find the answers so that you can have some peace of mind -- whether or not you can or can't get peace with a particular partner.
It is also helpful if you share how long you've been together, and any other information you would like me to know before I dive into the charts of you and your partner/potential partner. All of that is relevant, and although the optional things are not at all required, you'll get more from your reading if you do tell me what's on your mind and what you would like to gain from the reading.
Now, I can't tell you if you and a partner will get to buy a new house or car this year, as that isn't related to your compatibility . . . but anything in relation to your compatibility, including issues with children, or fighting about children or in-laws, etc., are all questions that you can bring to the reading.
The answers are in the stars, and I will uncover those answers for you!
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The readings offered at Moon Star Astrology are based on Vedic Astrology, an ancient system that offers profound wisdom and insights into life. An astrology reading will indicate possibilities, but never certainties that are set in stone. Remember that you always hold the gift of free will in your hands, and the decisions you make or the actions you take will influence your tomorrows. An astrology reading cannot replace your common sense. Let the wisdom of the stars enlighten you and help you in your decisions, but always be in charge of yourself and your life, for you are the one who remains responsible for the choices that you make.
